Who said that? Must be a typo!! Godly women are some of the most sexually vibrant women out there! Who would have thought! But it’s something that we, I, have always known!

From way back in the day until now, the image has persisted of christian women being prudish, wearing outdated clothing etc. Then somehow…somewhere… this image was transferred into the bedroom, and resulted in the perception of these women as being asexual (having no sexual feelings or desires).   Interestingly the times have changed, styles and fashions evolved, and yet, the perception of christian women as being overly conservative and uptight has not! Today even some so called “christian” men do not desire, or are even attracted to Godly women.  Quel dommage! Their loss!

Some of the most exciting and fun persons I know are my very christian, God-faring female friends! If truth be told, I have had friends from all walks of life, diverse ethnic, religious and racial backgrounds. But I must admit that the most heart-felt enjoyment has been with my christian girlfriends. Is that hard to believe? After all, what do Godly women do for fun besides pray and look serious? LOL!!

There are many stereotypes of women in the church and persons who believe in God, generally. These stereotypes range from being overly conservative to outright boring or from being hypocritical and super judgmental to being overly loose and lacking moral sensibilities. A wide range of views persist! But as with most stereotypes there may be a modicum of truth and the rest is mainly untruth!

The truth.  Well, the truth is that christian women are simply women who believe in God, love God and are not afraid to show it! Hmm! A christian woman has feelings and emotions as do all women, and bases her life on God, not simply depending on her husband or family, work, or even friends to validate her existence. A Godly woman fears God and places her entire trust in Him. As soon as she begins to do that her life changes exponentially! It does not mean that she lives a problem free life. It does mean that when problems arise she knows that she does not have to depend on herself but, definitely can rely on God to solve her problems.

A wise man once said (well actually King Solomon to be precise) “Favour is deceitful, and beauty is vain: but a woman that feareth the Lord, she shall be praised (Proverbs 31: 30). This biblical advice truly speaks to the character and the sexuality of christian women. A  cursory reading of Proverbs 31 provides a description of an extraordinary woman who dutifully and extravangantly attends to the needs of her home,  family and employees, dresses stunningly, manages several business endeavors successfully and elevates her husband. The closing lines of the chapter, say that what makes that woman truly special, even extending beyond her beauty is her fear of God. Her fear of God distinguishes her from all other women, her children bless her and her husband praises her.  

Fast forward to today’s christian woman who now has a wide range of choices in fashion and styles.  A woman who places her trust in God, is confident and loves  herself and her body is a truly sexy woman. As a matter of fact, christian women today, are known to be some of the classiest and well-dressed women out there! A woman who is grounded in Christ and secure in her own skin is one of the most sexually attractive women in the world. Take it from me, there are lots of christian women who love God, love themselves and love sex too!